Love, God, Tantra And The Cosmic Orgasm

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What is the relationship between sex or the cosmic orgasm and love or god?

Or, how about this pretty tricky question: "What is better: Love or Sex?"

Well, this seemingly harmless question actually touches the very deep waters of existence, so let's dive into it:

– Sex which is not the same as love is not real SEX – but just genital tension relief. (Mainly used to distract oneself.)
– Love which is not pure sex is not real LOVE – but just romantic illusion. (Often used to inflate our sense of selves, because it certainly feels very good for our egos when somebody 'loves' us!)

REAL SEX however is dissolution of all physical boundaries; all distinctions between male and female simply vanish – which leads to an 'outer orgasm'. And REAL LOVE is dissolution of all personal and gender boundaries; all distinctions between male and female evaporate – this leads to an 'inner orgasm'.

Then, when the inner orgasm fuses with the outer orgasm so to speak, all dualities disappear and we are left with the undivided ONE! And of course: 'We', as we thought ourselves to be, don't exist anymore…

We could also say, love and sex conglomerates into god, as therapist and shaman Bradford Keeny cuts it right to the chase of the matter:

"There is no sex-free god!"


(Bradford Keeny)

In this ONE = G.O.D = G rand O rganizing D esign, there is no male, no female, no I, no you, no good, no bad, no left, no right, no sex and no love anymore…but simply the timeless, spaceless, eternal and infinite one which is nothing else but the…cosmic orgasm! Unfortunately, what we fear most (but at the same time long for most) is the very dissolution into this cosmic love-sex-death-orgasm-bliss. To gain more courage, see: Why is it so difficult to change our lives?

Girls' butts in desert (c) Bohocrush.comSo, what's wrong with the question "What is better, sex or love?"
I indeed imply that the question is wrongly put – it's as if we ask what is better: Yin or Yang! Let's don't make the classic mistake of dualizing something when it's not necessary. The all-time classic which reminds us of that is The Great Way by Sengcan:

"When love and hate are both absent everything becomes clear and undisguised. Make the smallest distinction, however, and heaven and earth are set infinitely apart."



Then again, Hugh Hefner, founder of Playboy once said:

"Sex without love is still better than no sex at all…"


(Hugh Hefner)


Finally, the complete melting with love-sex-death-orgasm-bliss is nothing else than the 'ultimate tantra'.

Photo (c) Shone Jen
(c)reated by @ wants to hear from you: Is there really no difference between love and sex? And are you courageous enough to dive into the cosmic love-sex-death-orgasm-bliss? Tell us what you feel. Pura Vida!

Sex, God And Shamanic Ecstasy (By Bradford Keeney)

"Fire, walk with me..." Shamanic fire dance. (c) Elena DolgovaEnjoy an absolutely fascinating interview with Bradford Keeney on sex, god and the old shamanic ecstasy techniques

"If we really want the world's spiritual leaders to help us out, then we need to see the Pope and the Dalai Lama agree to change costumes for one week, because if we can't see that degree of play and absurdity then they have nothing to say…"

"Move over meditation and welcome heightened arousal and ecstasy."

"The original forms of healing and being in relationship to the great mystery was wild, and the last great taboo for us today is opening the door and inviting the wild, that which is uncontrollable, unpredictable…"

"It's not about going into trance, it's about being awakened."

"…we were born to fully be embraced by bliss."

"What we need is to laugh our asses off."

"The world is made of stories, not atoms."
(In this context see also: 'Reality Is Made Of Language'.)

This interview is spectacularly spiritual but powerfully down-to-earth at the same time. Bradford Keeney is charismatic, enthusiastic and totally inspiring. No doubt: The source speaks directly through him!  Enjoy it right here, right now:
Bradford Keeney talks with Joanna Harcourt-Smith on Sex, God and shamanic ecstasy shaking.

(Interviewed by Joanna Harcourt-Smith on By the way Joanna has been the girlfriend of Timothy Leary in those exciting days in the sixties!)

(Pic: Elena Dolgova @

"There is no sex-free god…!"


(Bradford Keeny)

Bradford Keeney Bradford Keeney, Ph.D., born 1951, is an American psychotherapist, internationally renowned scholar, cybernetician, ethnographer, therapist, and shaman. He wrote more than thirty books in the fields of psychotherapy, cybernetics, and ethnographies of healing traditions, many of his works are considered classics in their fields. Keeney is cited as one of the major sources on cybernetics in the Encyclopedia of Artificial Intelligence.

He is also recognized as a spiritual teacher and as an elder shaman in cultures throughout the world including the Guarani Indians of lower basin Amazonia, the Japanese tradition of seiki jutsu, the elder Shakers of St. Vincent, the Zulu sangoma community, diverse folk healers of Brazil, and the Balians of Bali and others. Regarded as a n/om kxao (owner of spiritual power) by the Bushmen of Namibia and Botswana, he founded Thara Tjua (Shaking House), the Bushman Healing Conservancy.

Keeney is the author of 'Profiles of Healing', an encyclopedia of the world’s healing practices as well as several classics in the field of psychotherapy and numerous titles for the popular press, such as:

– Bushman Shaman: Awakening the Spirit through Ecstatic Dance (Autobiography)
– Shamanic Christianity: The Direct Experience of Mystical Communion
– Shaking Medicine: The Healing Power of Ecstatic Movement

In his early work, Keeney articulated patterns of communication for distinguished psychotherapists, later using his own psychotherapeutic cases to show how one can use psychotherapy as an art to create successful therapeutic transformation in clients. Keeney founded the Institute for Creative Transformation in 2009. He is the father of notable Los Angeles based DJ Skee.

Keeney invites us in a most charismatic way to go beyond modernity to the oldest culture on earth to find true magic and power.

Find out more about this fascinating gentleman on his site:

2018 – Apocalypse Or End Of Suffering ? wishes you a blissful and ecstatic 2018 even…

 …if the new year brings us the long-feared apocalypse!

The 4 horsemen of the apocalypseThe 4 horsemen of the Apocalypse as described in the bible in the book of revelations.

Some people see the apocalypse coming soon, for example American novelist Joel C. Rosenberg:

"We are living on the brink of the apocalypse, but the world is asleep."


(Joel C. Rosenberg)

American actress Danai Gurira even considers a zombie apocalypse:

"A zombie apocalypse isn't the most jovial situation."


(Danai Gurira)

Horror author Stephen King reminds us of the mini-apocalypse on 11th September 2011 in New York:

"After the 9/11 apocalypse happened in New York City, people, particularly New Yorkers, who breathed in the ash, or saw the results of that, have a tendency to keep seeing echoes and having flashbacks to it."


(Stephen King)

By the way, hear AC/DC how the antichrist felt safe in New York City in the year 2000.


Whatever exciting adventures are going to confront us thanks for all your support, ideas, comments, photos, stories, art and especially for

…being yourSELF…

"Screech Symmetry" Psychedelic art  by @

So pessimists expect the apocalypse, optimists probably peace on earth or something even more beautiful. Bill Vaughan commented:

"An optimist stays up until midnight to see the new year in. A pessimist stays up to make sure the old year leaves."


(Bill Vaughan)

Rainer Maria Rilke seemingly was an optimist:

"And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been."


(Rainer Maria Rilke)


The end of suffering might be in our hands. Keep sharing your deepest feelings and visions in this new exciting year to come – and know that in 2018

Ultrafeel will bring you miracles, greater ones then ever before…
more of the best – more than everything: for your pleasure only !

And now, for 2018, keep in mind the most important:

Meow! Miau!  Kitten. Katzen. Cat. Cats. Hold onto your loved ones and never let them go.

Hold onto your loved ones and never let them go!

And make sure that you realise not only in 2018, but always…:

You are unique


Recognize that you are unique in all eternity…You are one of a kind!
…there is nobody like you anywhere on earth today,
and there never will be anybody like you in all eternity,
because the Universe never duplicates itself.


It all boils down to the fact that if any one of us does not fulfill that purpose
for which he or she was placed on earth,
growth is slowed down because nobody can do what you do, exactly the way you do it.


Very simply, that means that there is no competition.


(Foster Hibbard)

In any case we leave you with this:

Start the new year eco-friendly and limit yourself to recycling your old resolutions… Pura Vida 2018!

The Most Touching And Loving Christmas Story Ever

Heart Box ChocolateWhat a deeply touching christmas story about a 3 year old girl and her father!

Some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy."
He was embarrassed by his earlier over-reaction, but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty. He yelled at her, "Don’t you know that when you give someone a present, there’s supposed to be something inside it?"

The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said, "Oh, Daddy, it is not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy."

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness. It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each of us as humans have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, friends, family or God. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.

"He who has not Christmas in his heart will never find it under a tree."


(Roy L. Smith)

So what is Christmas really?

"Christmas, my child, is love in action. Every time we love, every time we give, it's Christmas."


(Dale Evans)

What Is The Perfect Christmas Present…?

Is this the perfect christmas gift?

The woman bitches: "If these cheap K-Mart earrings are the best you can do this christmas, then you can just follow me out that fucking door!" Nope, there's another one…:

Thanksfullly, the perfect christmas present is nothing outside of us – as Roy L. Smith states:

"He who has not Christmas in his heart will never find it under a tree."


(Roy L. Smith)


What is the perfect christmas present?


Non-Duality Teacher Jeff Foster’s Christmas Present Appearance

Santa's Sleigh - Christmas (

Xmas present appearance

…Christmas arises in a great open spaciousness in which everything is allowed:
the joy, the pain, the frustration, the whole damn mess
that is this strange and beautiful thing we call life.

All things arise, stay for a while, and pass,
but what is beyond all of this is the simple and obvious presence
that is this moment, and this, and this.

Present sights, present sounds, present smells, present ideas of "me and my life",
or "me and my xmas presents".

That's it – and to think we spent a lifetime searching for something more!
Just this present appearance, which includes everything,
so that it's not really a "present appearance" at all,
for this suggests that there may be
things outside of this present appearance.

Well, that's fine… language can never touch THIS…

And I've just realised the enormous pun potential in the phrase "present appearance"!
(get it… Xmas present appearance…!)

Anyway……Merry Xmas!!!

Jeff Foster

Jeff Foster studied Astrophysics at Cambridge University. After a long period of depression and illness, Jeff began a journey of seeking enlightenment to relieve his suffering; he started an intensive spiritual quest for spiritual liberation.

Upon finally discovering the non-dual nature of everything his frantic search came to an end. In the clarity of his discovery, life turned into what it always was: an open, loving, spontaneous and intimate eternity in the here and now.

He believes that the truth – that which is present and alive – is absolutely free and cannot be captured by any religion, ideology, philosophy, belief system or person. Jeff presently conducts meetings and retreats in the UK and around the world as well as one-to-one sessions.

Find more of Jeff Foster's texts and videos about the subject of advaita (non-duality) on his website, including essays, talk transcripts, books, CDs and DVDs, audio and video:

Christmas Event Organizer (CEO) Dr. J. Christus Von Bethlehem’s Weihnachts-Information

'Buddy Christ' by Renonevada.Dr. J. Christus von Bethlehem, CEO (Christmas Event Organizer) hat eine Weihnachts-Botschaft für uns:

Also Leute, ich bin jetzt im Urlaub. Aller Vorausicht nach bin ich bis Weihnachten wieder da, aber die Vorbereitungen darauf sollten natürlich jetzt schon starten.

Status: Wie Weihnachten letztes Jahr im Internet gezeigt hat, heißt Weihnachten nicht mehr Weihnachten, sondern X-mas, also muss der Weihnachtsmann entsprechend auch ab jetzt X-man heißen! Da X-mas quasi schon vor der Tür steht, ist es spätestens seit Oktober höchste Zeit, mit der Weihnachtsvorbereitung zu beginnen.
Verzeihung, seit Oktober ist es höchste Zeit, mit dem Weihnachts-roll-out zu starten und die Christmas-Mailing-Aktion just in time vorzubereiten.

Hinweis: Die Kick-Off-Veranstaltung (früher 1. Advent) für die diesjährige SANCROS (Santa Claus Road Show) findet bereits am 27. November statt. Daher wurde das offizielle come-together des Organizing Commitees unter Vorsitz des CIO (Christmas Illumination Officer) abgehalten.

Erstmals haben wir ein Projekt-Status-Meeting vorgeschaltet, bei dem eine in Workshops entwickelte to-do-Liste und einheitliche Job Descriptions erstellt wurden. Dadurch sollen klare Verantwortungsbereiche, eine powervolle Performance des Kundenevents und optimierte Geschenk-Allocations geschaffen werden, was wiederum den Service-Level erhöht und außerdem hilft, X-mas als Brandname global zu implementieren.

Samichlaus HirscheDieses Meeting diente zugleich dazu, mit dem Co-Head des Global Christmas Markets (früher Knecht Ruprecht) die Ablauforganisation abzustimmen, die Geschenk-Distribution an die zuständigen private-Schenking-Center sicherzustellen und die Zielgruppen klar zu definieren. Erstmals sollen auch sog. Geschenk-Units über das Internet angeboten werden.

Die Service Provider (Engel, Elfen und Rentiere) wurden bereits via conference call virtuell informiert und die core-competence vergeben. Ein Bündel von Incentives und ein separates Team-Building-Event an geeigneter location sollen den Motivationslevel erhöhen und gleichzeitig helfen, eine einheitliche corporate culture samt identity zu entwickeln.

Der Vorschlag, jedem Engel einen coach zur Seite zu stellen, wurde aus Budgetgründen zunächst gecancelled. Stattdessen wurde auf einer zusätzlichen Client Management Conference beschlossen, in einem testmarket als Pilotprojekt eine Hotline für kurzfristige Weihnachtswünsche einzurichten, um den added value für die Beschenkten zu erhöhen.Häschen und St. Nikolaus: Auf der Couch mit Psychiater-Samichlaus.

Durch ein ausgeklügeltes Management Information System (MIST) ist auch benchmark-orientiertes Controlling für jedes private-Schenking-Center möglich.

Nachdem ein neues Literaturkonzept und das layout-Format von externen Consultants (Osterhasen Associates) definiert wurde, konnte auch schon das diesjährige Goldene Buch (Golden Book Release V2.22.113.1) erstellt werden. Es erscheint als Flyer, ergänzt um ein Leaflet und einen Newsletter für das laufende updating. Hochauflagige lowcost-giveaways dienen zudem als teaser und flankierende Marketingmaßnahmen. Ferner wurde durch intensives brainstorming ein Konsens über das Mission Statement gefunden.

Es lautet: "Let's keep the candles burning" und ersetzt das bisherige "Frohe Weihnachten".

X-man hatte zwar anfangs Bedenken angesichts des corporate redesigns. Er akzeptierte aber letztlich den progressiven Consulting-Ansatz, auch im Hinblick auf das Sharholder-value, und würdigte das Know-how seiner Investor-Relation-Manager.

Obwohl wir stärkstens empfehlen die winter-sonnenwende zu feiern, wünschen wir nun trotzdem: Wunderbare weihnachtszeit an alle fans!

(Pic: 'Buddy Christ' by Renonevada)

Santa Seems So Jolly – But Could He Be Satan Himself ?

Could it indeed be so? Santa Claus is related to Satan?

This is not as far-fetched as it might sound. See what American philosopher, author and futurist Robert Anton Wilson said about the subject:

"There’s the Lilith, the female Devil, and buried in Judaism there’s the Shekinah, the female aspect of God. I’m more interested in the way that the Devil infiltrated Christianity disguised as Santa Claus. Very few people realize the archetypes are the same.

It’s the old pagan fertility god. Satan is the caricature that the Christian church created, but the fertility god came back as Santa, and he wears the same red suit as the Devil. The name Satan and Santa are made up of the same letters; you just move one and you’ve changed Santa into Satan."

And what did Victor Borge, Danish born American comedian and pianist think about Santa Claus?

"Santa Claus has the right idea: visit people once a year."


(Victor Borge)

"Why is Santa so Jolly?" by George Carlin.

A quite revealing political quote on Santa by Henry Louis Mencken (the American humorous Journalist and Critic of American life who influenced US fiction through the 20s; 1880-1956):

"God is a Republican, and Santa Claus is a Democrat."


(Henry Louis Mencken)

So should we fear good old jolly Santa? 

Probably not; and note that people who are afraid of Santa Claus are called Claustrophobic…

Who Really Are You ? Most Revealing Non-Dual Video Dramatically Shows You !

Enjoy this very imressive non-duality animation by Louis Lefebvre.

It dramatically portrays the evolution of consciousness from its inanimate state into human form and then back through spiritual seeking to Oneness. See that consciousness as oneness plays both parts: The good and the bad, the saint and the whore!

Especially if you're inclined to religion, try to be open to the non-dual message in this animation: Religion is unnecessary! Actually it just complicates and slows down the realization that you are already what you are looking for…

This video was inspired by the spiritual (Actually it's advaita / non-duality) teachings of Wayne Liquorman and Ramesh S. Balsekar.

Who really are you?

And now see Mark McCloskey's poem to further clarify what we really are…:

What you're not, and what you are

You are not your money, capital gains or securities.

You are not your house, car or possessions.

You are not your job, position or salary.

You are not your intelligence, contributions or lack thereof.

You are not your prestige, power or authority.

You are not your memory, dreams or desires.

You are not your sexual preferences, lovemaking skills or fetishes.

You are not your talents, gifts or accomplishments.

You are not your name, address or phone number.

You are not your age, gender or race.

You are not your ego, past and future.

You are not your thoughts, thought or to be thought.


You are this naked moment of surrender to the Pure Silence,
which is within you, around you and beyond you.

You are the kingdom of heaven, right here, right now.

Welcome to your Self.

From your own Self with much love.

Consciousness Video found on:
Check out Mark McCloskey's very inspiring essays on non-duality here:

Does Jesus Love You ? (Erotic Burlesque Photo by Richard Rasner)

Richard Rasner's photo shows how much Jesus loves…burlesque!


Jesus loves a burlesque woman... (c) Richard Rasner @ Nakayama Studios.
Model Vi Vacious at the Erotic Heritage Museum in Las Vegas performing a classic burlesque dance.

Publication of this erotic art foto needs permission of the photographer Richard Rasner.

Richard's work has already been featured on in December 2007. See the interview and some of his erotic fotos.

Find out more about Richard Rasner’s amazingly creative erotic art at his Nakayama Studios website: