Love, God, Tantra And The Cosmic Orgasm

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What is the relationship between sex or the cosmic orgasm and love or god?

Or, how about this pretty tricky question: "What is better: Love or Sex?"

Well, this seemingly harmless question actually touches the very deep waters of existence, so let's dive into it:

– Sex which is not the same as love is not real SEX – but just genital tension relief. (Mainly used to distract oneself.)
– Love which is not pure sex is not real LOVE – but just romantic illusion. (Often used to inflate our sense of selves, because it certainly feels very good for our egos when somebody 'loves' us!)

REAL SEX however is dissolution of all physical boundaries; all distinctions between male and female simply vanish – which leads to an 'outer orgasm'. And REAL LOVE is dissolution of all personal and gender boundaries; all distinctions between male and female evaporate – this leads to an 'inner orgasm'.

Then, when the inner orgasm fuses with the outer orgasm so to speak, all dualities disappear and we are left with the undivided ONE! And of course: 'We', as we thought ourselves to be, don't exist anymore…

We could also say, love and sex conglomerates into god, as therapist and shaman Bradford Keeny cuts it right to the chase of the matter:

"There is no sex-free god!"


(Bradford Keeny)

In this ONE = G.O.D = G rand O rganizing D esign, there is no male, no female, no I, no you, no good, no bad, no left, no right, no sex and no love anymore…but simply the timeless, spaceless, eternal and infinite one which is nothing else but the…cosmic orgasm! Unfortunately, what we fear most (but at the same time long for most) is the very dissolution into this cosmic love-sex-death-orgasm-bliss. To gain more courage, see: Why is it so difficult to change our lives?

Girls' butts in desert (c) Bohocrush.comSo, what's wrong with the question "What is better, sex or love?"
I indeed imply that the question is wrongly put – it's as if we ask what is better: Yin or Yang! Let's don't make the classic mistake of dualizing something when it's not necessary. The all-time classic which reminds us of that is The Great Way by Sengcan:

"When love and hate are both absent everything becomes clear and undisguised. Make the smallest distinction, however, and heaven and earth are set infinitely apart."



Then again, Hugh Hefner, founder of Playboy once said:

"Sex without love is still better than no sex at all…"


(Hugh Hefner)


Finally, the complete melting with love-sex-death-orgasm-bliss is nothing else than the 'ultimate tantra'.

Photo (c) Shone Jen
(c)reated by @ wants to hear from you: Is there really no difference between love and sex? And are you courageous enough to dive into the cosmic love-sex-death-orgasm-bliss? Tell us what you feel. Pura Vida!

2018 – Apocalypse Or End Of Suffering ? wishes you a blissful and ecstatic 2018 even…

 …if the new year brings us the long-feared apocalypse!

The 4 horsemen of the apocalypseThe 4 horsemen of the Apocalypse as described in the bible in the book of revelations.

Some people see the apocalypse coming soon, for example American novelist Joel C. Rosenberg:

"We are living on the brink of the apocalypse, but the world is asleep."


(Joel C. Rosenberg)

American actress Danai Gurira even considers a zombie apocalypse:

"A zombie apocalypse isn't the most jovial situation."


(Danai Gurira)

Horror author Stephen King reminds us of the mini-apocalypse on 11th September 2011 in New York:

"After the 9/11 apocalypse happened in New York City, people, particularly New Yorkers, who breathed in the ash, or saw the results of that, have a tendency to keep seeing echoes and having flashbacks to it."


(Stephen King)

By the way, hear AC/DC how the antichrist felt safe in New York City in the year 2000.


Whatever exciting adventures are going to confront us thanks for all your support, ideas, comments, photos, stories, art and especially for

…being yourSELF…

"Screech Symmetry" Psychedelic art  by @

So pessimists expect the apocalypse, optimists probably peace on earth or something even more beautiful. Bill Vaughan commented:

"An optimist stays up until midnight to see the new year in. A pessimist stays up to make sure the old year leaves."


(Bill Vaughan)

Rainer Maria Rilke seemingly was an optimist:

"And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been."


(Rainer Maria Rilke)


The end of suffering might be in our hands. Keep sharing your deepest feelings and visions in this new exciting year to come – and know that in 2018

Ultrafeel will bring you miracles, greater ones then ever before…
more of the best – more than everything: for your pleasure only !

And now, for 2018, keep in mind the most important:

Meow! Miau!  Kitten. Katzen. Cat. Cats. Hold onto your loved ones and never let them go.

Hold onto your loved ones and never let them go!

And make sure that you realise not only in 2018, but always…:

You are unique


Recognize that you are unique in all eternity…You are one of a kind!
…there is nobody like you anywhere on earth today,
and there never will be anybody like you in all eternity,
because the Universe never duplicates itself.


It all boils down to the fact that if any one of us does not fulfill that purpose
for which he or she was placed on earth,
growth is slowed down because nobody can do what you do, exactly the way you do it.


Very simply, that means that there is no competition.


(Foster Hibbard)

In any case we leave you with this:

Start the new year eco-friendly and limit yourself to recycling your old resolutions… Pura Vida 2018!

The Most Touching And Loving Christmas Story Ever

Heart Box ChocolateWhat a deeply touching christmas story about a 3 year old girl and her father!

Some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy."
He was embarrassed by his earlier over-reaction, but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty. He yelled at her, "Don’t you know that when you give someone a present, there’s supposed to be something inside it?"

The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said, "Oh, Daddy, it is not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy."

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness. It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.

In a very real sense, each of us as humans have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, friends, family or God. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.

"He who has not Christmas in his heart will never find it under a tree."


(Roy L. Smith)

So what is Christmas really?

"Christmas, my child, is love in action. Every time we love, every time we give, it's Christmas."


(Dale Evans)