Happiness is formless – it cannot be fitted into the frame of our demands.
We insist upon this wife or husband, this career or achievement, this home, this security, excitement, or distraction.
Even if we get our demands, we are no happier than before; we have merely covered our unhappiness.
It is still there, and it will inevitably show itself when change occurs.
We must break the frame altogether, and just let life happen.
Then, we enter an amazing new world whose existence we never before suspected.